I'm not sure if today's lethargy is chemo related or due to me having a flu jab yesterday. All I know is I'm not firing on all cylinders. In reality, compared to what some people suffer on chemo, I'm having a pretty easy time of it on Eribulin (so far). But it does make me tired and also sends my temperature a bit haywire at times. As a result I've had to bail out of a few recent social events, which makes me grumpy. I hate being an unreliable friend but when I'm tired and grumpy it's probably best for everyone if I go into hermit mode. The good news is that I've got a week off chemo at Christmas time (I wrote a begging email to my oncologist and laid it on with a trowel) so I'm hoping to be full of beans for the festivities, especially as a big family getaway is planned. All I can say is watch out Hampshire. You have been warned.
The other-half and I have risked divorce and done some cooking together in preparation. You wouldn't believe the blood, sweat and tears (and booze) that have gone into this cake.
|We've yet to ice and decorate the cake - so the story continues|
Anyway, unreliable as I am, constantly failing to turn up to planned shindigs, I cannot compare with my paternal grandfather. Sis no 3 has been doing lots of work on the family tree but until recently my grandad was a bit of a mystery.
|The last known picture of my grandad (picture from here)|
He walked out on his wife and four children (including my dad) in the early 1920s and was never heard of again. I had tried to give him the benefit of the doubt over this behaviour (which caused a lot of hardship to his wife and kids) but my sister has finally managed to find out what happened and it's not particularly edifying. Apparently he ran off to Coventry, Coventry I ask you, (apologies to any Coventry bods reading this). Other highlights of his life include
- Entering into a bigamous marriage and having another family
- Somehow getting his name on a war memorial in Cardiff as having been killed in action in 1918
- Claiming (and receiving) the old age pension two years earlier than he should have
- Being convicted of bypassing the electricity meter in his house and thereby defrauding the electricity company
To finish on a brighter note, the other-half's six year old godson was chatting to us the other day and informed us that he was going to be an indicator in the school play. Much confusion followed. Turns out he's playing the innkeeper.